Good Girls Finish Last: Why do guys leave good girls?

Good Girls Finish Last: Why do guys leave good girls?

By: Ebony Williams

IG: @love_child84

A few months ago, you and your boo were having a ball, cozier than two dogs in heat. However today, he is a faded memory. You’ve spent so many sleepless nights, turning over thoughts in your mind trying to figure out where it all went wrong. He made so many excuses as to why he hasn’t been around.  "I’ve been working late," the famous "it’s not you it’s me," and "I’m not ready for a relationship". 

 Honestly sis, you’ve suffered enough. Let’s get over the anger and realize he has done a disappearing act on you because he was a coward. I know it will be difficult but let’s try to tap into the real reason why guys leave good girls. Here are some possible crazy reasons guys run for the hills from the good girls.

Fixated on worst case scenario

Thinking about all of the things that could go wrong, instead of letting things flow and not bailing.

Not finished playing the field

Casanova still isn’t ready to settle down because he still wants to play the field to make sure he "chose the best option". 

In like not in Love

Some men need to feel you are the one they can’t let get away.

Too into you

Yes, I said it. Guys are protective over their feelings and scared of being hurt. So, if that means pulling the plug first that’s what they will do.

 He's reluctant to make plans

If he hems and haws about committing to anything even if it's in the semi-near future he's thinking about making a break for it.

He's has a constant mean attitude

The passive-aggressive break-up is a guy standby. Some men intentionally turn into assholes to make sure you break up with them. 

He's not into sex

He doesn't want to feel connected to you — or he's getting his needs fulfilled somewhere else.

The bottom line here is as women, we get serious when we meet a man. Men get serious with whomever they happen to be dating when they’re finally ready to settle down. That means after every other aspect of their life is in order — whether it's finishing grad school, finally pulling down a good-size paycheck, owning a car outright, owning a home/business — or when their friends start dropping like flies getting married themselves. So, sis don’t change your good girl ways, there is someone right in the wings waiting!

1 comment

  • Damn some of thats me cause i refuse to get hurt again! That’s a good read through Sabrina i just love you…

    Donna White

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